Lilly: A Hard Skinned Porcupine Trying to Set Up Camp

"Can you say hi?... Can you say hi?"

A small, brunette three year old peaks her baby-faced head over the table to better look at the guest with her curious, deep blue eyes and purple flower barrette. Her white little P.J. shirt and purple floral pants suggest that her bedtime is fast approaching but her outgoing shyness looks up at me as she faintly replies and waves her little fingers,

"Haaahhhlllooo."

"Wanna sit over here?... Wanna sit up here baby?... Wanna say hi to Kayla?"

As Lilly "baby-talks" to her daughter and lifts her up, she looks up at me and answers my unspoken question.

"Her name is Aurora."

As the two stare back at me their sparse facial differences seem to scream out. Lilly's bright blond hair and green eyes contrast with her daughter's, while their two wardrobes paint similar stories of pastel and dark purples; complimenting both of their complexions. When Aurora finally settles down upon her mother's rather large breasts, Lilly starts back up with her normal voice.

"I'm very Irish, really German, I got some English in me too... I don't know if that's what you want to hear...? But anyhow... My dad was really big on going to Europe..."

Aurora starts to giggle as she squirms out from under her mother's arms and crawls beneath the dining table. I steal a glance down between my legs and find her blue eyes peering up questioningly at me. Aurora sets up camp on her belly as her mother spills her guts out.

"My dad left when I was about ten years old... He was never a really good dad. What happened was my parents got married very young..."

She turns her head as Aurora athletically crawls out from beneath the table and sprints awkwardly towards the carpeted stairs. Lilly then yells in her normal voice,

"She make it upstairs?!"

A male voice replies with a drawn out Yuuuupp and Lilly focuses back on her story.

"But yeah, like, he was an alright dad.. but I was the middle child and something happened between my mom and another guy when they were together, like when he went to Europe one of the times and so when he came home and she was pregnant... he never really found out for sure if I was the other guy's or my actual father’s daughter. So he always treated me like an outcast. You know.. I never really got that love and affection from, like, a father figure."

Her confident gaze falters as she looks to her left at the neat and cleanly living room, with it's two leather sofas and medium fireplace: emitting a welcoming scene. She zones out for a second or two, takes a deep breadth and then returns my eye contact once more.

"Cuz he'd like come home and I'd be doing something... I'd be reading.. um.. a text book one day.. it was, like... it was about like this thick and.. Sorry... trying to think... it was my mother's yearbook. And I was reading it and I was, like nine and it was past my bed time and he got all upset with me and he grabbed the book and through it at my head... I mean, RIGHT at my head. And you know I... I got used to being treated like that... like an outcast.. you know?.. and so now, today, I'm very tough, because of IT, towards men, you know?"

Lilly giggles faintly as she brings her ever-expressive hands to her face for a brief moment. Then suddenly, they fly back down and her stature hardens ever so slightly.

"You try touching me and they’d wish they never tried. Because its like.. you try to touch me and I’m gonna fight back and you know... whatever I can do to hurt you back... because you have no right to touch me like that... Cuz I automatically think of my father. You know.."

I nod slowly as she takes her next breadth between her sprint-like sentences.

"I met Liam here and he’s one of the most special men I have ever met and... he’s 35 years old you know.. and I never really thought I was into older guys… I’m 20 by the way."

She casually flings her hand to the side with the last statement and throws a genuinely fun smile upon her face. Her hard skin and porcupine quills become replaced with her bubbly, care-free attitude. Only able to visit her past for a minute or two, she never gets to fully camp out in her memories... like her daughter beneath the table.

Starbucks, Spanish, and Stupidity

I know this isn’t supposed to be about me, but you have no idea… or maybe you do, (I’m going to assume you don’t)… You have no idea how loud it can be in a Starbucks coffee shop! The four workers with their green aprons and overly smiley faces exude their coffee driven energy throughout the whole café as they bustle from one order to the next. Three short women and one tall, dark man holler out the customer’s desired beverages as I take a seat on the far wall next to a policeman and a distinguished elderly man with a balding spot on the top of his forehead.

I open up my laptop and try to act conspicuous as the gentlemen converse… but like I said before, with the coffee shop literally buzzing with commotion and the two men barely bringing their vocal cords above a whisper, I found myself only registering the “ums” from the distinguished, balding man. THAT WAS IT.

Since my attempts to eaves drop on the two mysterious men was a failure, I decided to direct my attention to the broader scope of the whole shop. Someone was bound to be a loud talker. This was my first time actually wishing someone would be obnoxious in my coffee shop. Of course no one would oblige my wishes when I actually wanted it.

Then a short, Hispanic man in his mid forties sauntered into the café. This was when I finally started to take notice in the over friendly Starbucks employees. The Hispanic man plodded up to the counter when my wish was granted. At the other end of the table was a frizzy brunette with glasses and a stout stature, and of course a fake smile to go with her fake Spanish.

“¡HOLA!”

“Hola. Como estas?”

The frizzy headed woman knew the man probably spoke Spanish but judging by her somewhat dumbfounded expression, she probably didn’t expect to converse too much in his language.

“Um…Muy Bien gracias. Y tu?

I must have missed something in their conversation, because this was about the time the Spanish speaking man grew silent and chose his words slowly and precisely.

“Como estas?”

And this was about the time the frizz head multiplied her volume and practically shouted her repeated answer.

“MUY BIEN GRACIAS! Y TU?”

…

The worker and Mexican just stood across from each other, staring at the confusing expressions plastered on their faces. He then pointed at one of the pastries and handed her two dollars. She replied with a nod and handed him what he wanted. With a little bit of guts left in her frizzy mind, she attempted one last time to get through to him.

“Um… Que Significa ‘I’m Doing well thanks?’”

He didn’t even look at her. Instead he just shook his head in an appreciative way and went back to his plodding out the door. Frizz head’s co-workers looked at her in bewilderment. She just smiled apologetically and tried to play the whole incident off.

“I’m just practicing my Spanish… Mi Gato es mujero.”

The white overly plump blonde behind the counter then laughed and mockingly looked over her shoulder at the dark man.

“Como se dice “Dumbass” en espanol?”

“Tonto?…”

“What?”

“I think it’s tonto or something.”

All four of the workers stumbled for a second as they slowly put their masks back on for the public. The bustle quick started itself as if it’d never stopped and the machines hummed away while the steam was released.

The Intimidating Giggle Queen.

Her pink, fish net leggings looked like an atomic bomb had gone off within her proximity. Splotches of skin shown through until, (thankfully) the netting met the bottom of her short jean skirt. The neon yellow shirt she wore couldn't top her rainbow colored, feather hair but combined, her whole ensemble blared blindingly throughout the whole mall. As I walked up to her and the equally eccentric husband at her side I noticed her multiple jewelry adornments sprinkled about her face. She even went as far as to have her nose piercing connect itself to her ear piercing with an elaborate drooping chain. Pretty intimidating.

As I shook her hand and relayed my plans she sprouted a mesmerizing huge Cheshire smile and eagerly shook her head in a positive nod.

"Of course! I'd love to help."

So we began.

"My name is Alicia."

and then her nervous giggles erupted...

I waited until she started to falter with her fit before I began with my broad questions.

"Life is something that people make harder then they really should. It's something that we should treat like animals... You know? (Giggle, Giggle)" She started absently picking at her nail polish.

"I mean it's a good thing. People shouldn't be hurting each other. People should just live their lives and make the most of it." Her left hand emphasized her passion as it went up into the air and paused in a clawed position.

"Punk is who I am and to tell you the truth... I feel the most at home when I'm either at home or at a punk show." Her eyes glazed over a little as she broke eye contact and looked out past the children playing in the indoor playground.

"I mean, it really lets me get out of my mind. They're just a blast and I try to go to one at least once a week." She smiled triumphantly, happy with her answer, and perkily shrugged and looked back in my direction. (Giggle, Giggle)

I paused and laughed with her contagious "tee hees".

"What are three of your pet peeves?"

"Oh jeez."

She brought out her fingers and pointed to each one as she spoke.

"I hate no manners. Judgmental people. and... people who chew with their mouths open." (Giggle, Giggle)

Moving on...

"If I had to be an animal I would totally be a Squirrel Monkey!!" Her Egyptian style makeup stretched out as her eyes expanded with this comment.

"They're just so cute and lively and I don't know..." (Giggle, Giggle)

"What's one of your biggest dreams/goals?"

She looked out into the unknown once again and contemplated as she fidgeted with her hands.

"Well... I really want to move to Georgia."

"How come?"

"I really don't know. I've just always liked the idea of living in Georgia... Oh and I want to have a skunk farm there." (Giggle, Giggle) She shyly smiled as she knew I would ask "Why?"

"I think they're fun. I've never owned one but I would just love to have a whole farm of them. Speckled ones, striped ones, chocolates... I love em." (Giggle, Giggle)

As I thanked her again for giving me a piece of her time she enthusiastically jiggled from head to toe as if she'd shot up a whole gallon of caffeine.

"Oh! Could I by any chance get your picture?"

She threw back on her cat like smile and I snapped the shot.

"Wait! Can I see it? Is it good?"

I handed the camera to her and she gave it a hard study before she victoriously and reverently placed the camera back into my palm.

"It works." (Giggle, Giggle)

Hi I'm Sporadic

  As I skip out of my bed and zoom into my bombastic hot pink jacket, my booty starts to boogie to the bright tunes. "I'm Blue Daba dee daba dye, daba dee daba dye..."  

"Oh yeah, poof up that hair a little more girl, grasp that eighties look, work it, work it!" One last look at the mirror... "Big earrings... check. Bright eye shadow... dazzling! Little cleavage... scandalous. Foo Foo Juice... oh, I almost forgot!" I spritz myself twice with my tantalizingly scrumptious perfumé and TA DA!! "Let's go kick some honey buns!" Yup... got a little "Mulan," the movie going on. 

"Let's strut this joint shall we?" My walk's gotta have a spring to it. Skip enough and that mane of mine gets that rhythm that POPS. "Bounce curls, BOUNCE! Yeah.. you too bubble butt, do a little hick-up for mommy. Girls!!! You better not get lazy on me... perky and playful! Gotta shine up this gloom." I sashay my way to class, sit front and center at the end of the table, give my lips a taste of that liquid morning gold: Grande toffee nut, caramel, soy latte. "SUGAR! Go through my veins. Explode orgasmically into my brain. FEED ME! ENERGIZE ME! Give it to me baby, uh huh uh huh!" 

"Oh!" By the way. "Good Morning Kat! Good Morning Richard! Good Morning..." I tap my foot through the timed session and glaze my eyes over on behalf of saving battery. ZIP! "Bye, Bye stuffy cage, hellllllooooo freshly baked fun! Well, for thirty minutes..." I grab my extravagant lunch and high-tail it to secretary life. 

Tick Tock. Tick Tock. "Arts and Sciences, this is Kayla, how may I help you?" My fingers find the volume on the radio, "Girl's just wanna have fuu-uun! Now we're talkin!" File, File, head bob. Copy, Copy, spin. Sign, Sign, Shake! Ring, Ring, "On my FINGER! HAHA!" I open the front door and plunge head first into the enticing crowd. "Let's get out of here... where you taking mother... ice ice baby... Yeah It's too cold."

 As my chattering comes to an end, my tummy growls. Round the cafeteria food; dull, dreary... oh but what lovely cookies. Pace myself, look for opportunities... and who might that be in front of me?  "Oh yes, Richard's gonna get it." I tip toe behind him while he's twaddling in line. One. Two. THREE! Squeeze both sides! CURPLAT!!! 

"Oh Shit." 

Noodles paint the carpet and Richard adorns a rather bewildering stare. 

"Oh Poo... I'll clean it up." 

The UC is stifling. A spoon clanks against its plate. Snicker, Snicker, get my pink face on. Point, Point, smile back. Joke, Joke, resume my bounce. 

On Tampons

"Kayla!! Come swim with us!" Swim... Swim... Swimming entails me to be in water, which in turn, makes my absorbing pad a dangerous device that could embarrass and expose me. This gosh darn period of mine always has to get in the way. I'm only thirteen and I've had to deal with this "trick of nature" for over a year now. OVER A YEAR!... I have had to say no to swimming for a week out of every month for OVER ONE GOD DAMN YEAR!

 I don't think you understand. Swimming is my life at this age. My grandparents own a swimming pool, I live right next to a river, all my friends swim, I SWIM, that is, when I'm not literally "riding the white horse." Sure, I've heard of tampons, but my mom doesn't want me to use one until I'm absolutely ready. Well, dammit woman, I'm freaking ready to swim! 

I go on the mission of finding that little cotton plug while my friends get their feet wet. I open the cupboards while Amanda climbs the ladder to our slide. I tear open the wrapper; "Cute. The tampon company thinks they can disguise the scary complexity of a tampon by making it look like candy. Brilliant. You can't fool me. No sir, this is a freaking weapon. I KNOW IT!" As the soft, pink plastic becomes exposed, my friend outside hollers my name again. I look at the box for directions: 

-Decide if you want to sit or stand during tampon insertion. If you choose to sit, the toilet is a good place. Spread your knees apart and insert the tampon into your vagina. If you’d rather stand during tampon insertion, prop one foot on something so that leg is higher than the other leg; the side of your bathtub is good for propping your foot on.

"I'll sit, thank you." 

-Place the tampon applicator tip into the opening of your vagina and push it

 towards your lower back.

SPLASH!! My friend just slid down the slide into the welcoming waters outside. 

-Continue pushing the tampon back until you can feel the end of the outer tube just at the opening of the vaginal canal.

Ok... ouch... Ouch... 

-Next, push the inner tube into your vagina until the tampon inserts fully, and the inner and outer applicator tube ends meet.

HOLY MOTHER OF GOD! People do this on a regular basis?! 

"Kayla!!? Come on! What are you doing?!"

-For proper tampon insertion, make sure the two ends of the applicator meet just at the opening to your vagina. Gently pull the applicator out of the vagina, while making sure that you can feel the string hanging out from the bottom of the tampon.

YANK! Ok I'm good. I can swim now. 

"I'm coming!"

As I run out the doors, sandpaper starts rubbing inside of me. The tampon was initially made by the Egyptians with softened papyrus and the Greeks used sticks with lint wrapped around. It wasn't until 1929 that the applicator tampon with a removal cord was invented. It doesn't mean shit, I don't care if the tampon first started out with women sticking twigs up themselves, this freaking hurts and we should have better technology now so that it doesn't rub me raw! 

SPLASH!! "Water, oh how I love you!" After my perfect canon ball, I scurry out of the water to go down the slide. (Rub) I'm gonna enjoy every moment of this. (Tampon) SPLASH!! I kick with my back feet and dive deep into the depths. (TAMPON) I hold my breath as I sit on the floor. Aww... no movement equals no tampon rubbing. 

Tampons offer discretion and freedom to women such as swimming to continue without interruption. Unlike sanitary pads, menstrual blood is not exposed to the air with the use of tampons, so there is limited odor. There is no way to see if a woman is using a tampon when she is clothed, unlike sanitary pads, which have outlines that can sometimes be seen through fabric. 

I push off up to the surface, launching out of the water with an agonizing groan. What is wrong with this tampon? 

 "Are you Ok Kayla?" 

"No. I think I have a stomach ache. I'm gonna get out for a bit."

I waddle to the bathroom with a broomstick caught between my legs. I reach the sanctuary of the bathroom and pull down my swimsuit. Well folks.... I only succeeded in putting the tampon in halfway. 

After that day, I didn't convert back to the tampon for another few months. It was a traumatizing experience, but I'm glad to say that tampons and I have made up. They are more convenient than pads in a lot of ways, but many researchers have discovered that some tampons have bleach in them, which can make a woman bleed more. What a horrible sales pitch, huh? 

There is also the risk of TSS (Toxic Shock Syndrome) which can hospitalize women and could possibly lead to sterility. This is only if you leave in the lovely little plug for days, but still, it is a serious side effect and makes the proper usage of our little friend the tampon a little more respected, at least by me. 

     

Good Night Bed

One can hear it calling from miles away; it's tantalizing reminders scream at you when you're seconds from collapsing with exhaustion. Those words vibrate within your body when you're trapped in a stressful situation and the only escape route for your mind is by releasing your head upon those fluffy clouds. It whispers little temptations of fun, hell, when horniness arises, the only vision you see is of those sleek sheets and strong wooden posts. 

The blankets are like mosquito nets for our secrets; the way we sleep is of utmost confidentiality. Our kicks throughout the night get absorbed by the gentle cocoon, our obnoxious snoring never awakens it's loving embrace, and when our conversations escape our dreamland it never laughs with amusement. As you swish and sway and roll back and forth, it keeps you within your boundaries, trying with all its might to not let you fall. It is one of the best kind of friends because of this.  

Whether it be a twin, a full, a queen, or a king; it will never let you down. Whether it be round, filled with water, hard as a rock, or soft as a feather; it will welcome you every time you enter it's domain. Whether it be pink, purple, black, or green; it will never say no to a good sex  session. It is the first thing and the last thing we see and touch. It is the one object within the house that allows us to completely let go and recuperate. It is the prized possession of a couple and the cherished piece of furniture for the family. 

Sometimes a TV is placed at the foot of its throne so that more time can be spent on it. Through this, it suggests the ultimate sleepover and groans with pleasure when several bodies lay upon it and utilize its powers. It doesn't mind if popcorn is nestled between its crevices, nor does it snub the boy who farts unexpectedly. The sleepover is just another task it must undertake as it becomes a trampoline for the rascals who wish to fly to never never land. These adventurous pupils encounter the wonders that its springs can offer as they get higher and higher with each jump. Does the mattress explode with rage or open up its great mouth and swallow the kids up? Never. Do the pillows turn to rocks so that the fights are found less desirable? Unlikely. This is when you realize that you have found the perfect babysitter. 

Within your room, it begs for your autograph; its frequent exposure through film has made it a movie star. Its fame allows you to envision it even more when lust comes knocking at your door. Any kind of love can be seen by its comforters. The ocean becomes jealous of the movements from the bodies within the sheets as they become in sync with the mattress's capabilities. This is when the heart of your room can be vocal; it can thump against the wall or moan with its springs. It can jump slightly upon the floor as it vibrates to life. It's sexual intelligence becomes richer with every position that it witnesses and as the night grows longer it begs for more sweat. As the climax is reached the conversation between man and furniture becomes deafening. While the roller coaster slugs to a halt, the breathing can only be heard as the mattresses settle around the worn out bodies, patting them on the back for such a good show. As the morning sun arises, you find your furniture has moved throughout the night as if its posts became moving limbs. This is when you realize how wild your friend can become.  

There is a dark side to this lovely object, for beneath its strong composure, there is a black world that holds all the nightmares of children and adults. It swallows up your important items that you look for all day long and it collects the dust bunnies that multiply constantly. This becomes the reasons for allergies and lateness to work. As the clutter builds up under its skirts, the boogie man becomes even more vivid as the lights go out and the child crawls under its covers, trying to relinquish the idea of a monster. Since the unknown is beneath you, your fears become trapped under your blankets. The patterned cloth creates a shield for the child, to ward off the guy with the grotesque physique lurking and disturbing the tiny tot's slumber. This is why we should respect and fear this furniture all at once.   

Throughout the world it completes a home and allows mankind to dream. Those dreams then turn into ideas, into art, and into actions; which, in turn, become our legacy. But once those dreams are through with and our goals have been accomplished, we then turn to our treasured furniture; in hopes of it being our vehicle to the next life. For, what better way to end, then to close your eyes for the last time, upon the one thing that has never left you throughout your journey: "Good Night Bed." 

You Are What You Drive...

The sun was beating its penetrating rays down onto our scantily-clothed bodies, as if to remind the people of The Dalles that wearing less doesn't really keep the sweat at bay. We were meandering along the busy sidewalk, just sipping our iced teas and trying to enjoy the pleasures that accompany the hot July afternoon when I began to wonder if my little sister and her friend were even coherent to the world around us. 

"Oh my god! That is such a beaner car!"

"No it's not! It's a ricer car!"

As my sister and her buddy battle out their bizarre argument, I look to my left and watch the little tricked out Honda drive past us with music blaring in all directions. 

"It's a beaner car if it's visually pimped. It's a ricer car if it's loaded under the hood." 

What the hell does that have to do with beaner and ricer? As their banter comes to a close, I start wondering how much a car symbolizes a person in our society. 

We constantly are exposed to commercials that proclaim "You're a manly man if you drive this Ford pick-up." "You're a sexy individual if you're caught in a Bentley." Why though? Is a person seriously a hick if they pull up in a beat up Chevy? At first glance, ninety percent of most people would probably go with their first impression and agree with society in saying yes, that person is a hick. But then, why don't we ever leave it open to the driver to decide if the car expresses who they are? That person in the "Ricky Bobby" truck could very well be the hick we're thinking of, but on the same hand, the driver could be a broke college student, receiving a hand-me-down set of wheels. 

When I look back to the "beaner" and the "ricer" idea, it seems almost racist. Who are we to categorize a culture through the way a vehicle is decorated? When my sister and her friend declared their branding of the car, it was almost in a tone of disgust. Implying that this kind of a car is undesirable and trash like, thus making the "beaner" and "ricer" reference of Mexicans and Japanese degrading and insulting. The person driving the "beaner" car could, in all actuality, be a Caucasian female that has kids at latch key; she just happens to like huge spoilers, spinning wheels and hydraulics; doesn't mean we need to classify that type of a car as one that Mexicans would drive.  Just on the flip side, a hispanic person could love to drive something completely different and more conservative. Thus, making one type of a car represent a minority of people, pointless; we all have different tastes. 

 I grew up out in the country, with horses and muddy roads, and yet, I own a little red Toyota Celica. I wasn't going for practicality, I just liked the way it looked and how it made me feel. When I first purchased the car, everyone was shocked; they were expecting me to come home with a little pick-up truck. The truck would have suited their overall assumption that they had of me, but the truck wasn't who I was. Every person has their own taste, their own way of expressing themselves, but just because I have a little red Celica, doesn't mean I'm not a country girl too. 

I guess when people see expensive cars, they're automatically going to assume the person is rich and when a Hummer is out in the parking lot, one would see someone like Arnold stepping out of it with a gun slung over his shoulder. These assumptions all tie back into our society and how we are exposed to media and how we were raised. It's up to us to decide whether to actually presume that since that little Honda is all tricked out, it obviously must belong to a hispanic individual. But when it actually comes down to it, would you still holler out "What a beaner car!" if it drove past you and your friends? 

A Shimmer Before Darkness.

         The stars shown brightly that night. Their radiance almost out-sparkled my blue, sequenced, short cardigan, but not quite. My outfit literally shimmered every time I made a movement. That cardigan made my mood instantaneously shift to match it whenever I layered it onto my body. I rarely wore it though; it was only meant for special occasions, and tonight was one of those occasions.

         This first year of high school was going to be my new beginning. I was going to rid myself of my shyness and get what I wanted. And at that moment, I wanted the very guy that haunted my every dream since the day he moved to Arlington when I was in sixth grade. His luscious lips were exact replicas of Angelina Jolie's; they begged me to stare at them and imagine what they held behind their shut doors. Once those doors opened though, the world would get a little piece of heaven. 

         He would walk the halls with a strut that made every girl steal a glance and blush back to what they were previously doing. With his sunshine head of hair dancing as his crystal eyes looked strait ahead, my ever-hungry imagination would envision this noble junior walking up to me and asking if I would like to do more than just admire from afar. These visions of mine never seemed to come true though. The closest I would ever get to uttering a single syllable to him would usually sing to the tune of "excuse me" or "hi" if I was lucky. 

         As my unconventional cardigan glimmered and winked at the dance lights, my thoughts were completely skipping past the stupid "hi" scenario and driving full speed towards virginal ecstasy. My newly found teenage spirit was tearing apart my old gawky middle school years. As the shredding of my inner self was occurring, my outer self started molding into the music. My hips jerked neurotically as my sexual predator within dove deeper into my core; latching its claws into my sole and taking over my judgment. "Meek Kayla" had fallen and my eyes dilated as my erotic persona came to life. 

         My animalistic heart beat faster as my prey joined the herd of grinding bodies. As if my feet were possessed, I sashayed over to my prize and without a single shake in my voice, asked him to dance. He smiled with those pearls derived straight from the gods and grabbed my hand. 

         We started out slow and distant but with each song he began to draw me in closer and my ego skyrocketed. It was then that I made up my mind and shushed my tiny little angel of morality. I reached for his ear and whispered two daring words that shimmered throughout my body into his. "Follow Me." 

         With him in tow, we raced through the backdoor and down the school hallways. My pounding feet mimicked my throbbing heart as we raced away from the crowd and away from ourselves. I rounded a corner and simultaneously pulled and pushed him up against the hard wall. Right when his astonished face transformed I knew there was no turning back. I succumbed to those taunting lips and gave my body permission to take over. I kissed him first; he kissed me back. I ran my hands through his golden locks; he ran his hands up and down my shoulder blades. This was my first kiss. 

         Little did I know, that first kiss would be the fire starter for a mass forest of hardship and a rite of passage that I had to go through to become who I am today. It was the ending of my innocence and the beginning of my journey to womanhood. To this day, I will always look back on that kiss with a mixture of sorrow and pride, but never regret. My mind had completely vanished; I had been in the moment. I had captured courage; I had worn my sparkling cardigan.

A Piece of Ass and A Piece of Shit.

His breath ran down my neck as I shivered and put my empty wine bottle down. 

"I want you so bad." was all his beer sodden mouth could mutter, as he groped my chest and pushed me up against the cold, metallic car door. 

"Please... stop, I hardly even know you. I bet you don't even know my last name." 

With that statement mustered out of me, he seemed to snap out of his trance for once and looked intently at the ground. His grip on my waist loosened and his torso seemed to get lighter against my body. 

I let out a deep breath and pat him on the shoulder. 

"Told you so." 

He whipped his head up and narrowed his eyes as I was trying to snake my way out from under his arms. 

"Kayla... Kayla... it starts with a K... Kayla KILBY!!! HA!!! Now we know each other."

As if him answering that one question were a green light, he grabbed my ass and pulled me up against him, laying a big, sloppy, wet one right on my half open mouth. This followed with a roaming hand up the shirt and a soft "Let's fuck" in my ear. 

The ground started spinning and I pushed against the piece of meat with no prevail. My sloppy struggling was useless and as I was just about to give up and tell him a white lie that would get me out from under his grasp, I hear a long, exaggerated zip and a gentle hand grabs mine. It directs me to the hard piece of him that I was not intending to see or FEEL for that matter. I freeze up and he starts reaching for my pants. 

"NO! I am not having sex with you, especially not right here in broad day light!" With that, I pull my pants back up and cross my arms over my chest. 

"Well... we could walk back to your place...?"

"No... my bed is too small." 

"Well... we could walk back to my place!"

"How far would that be?"

"It's a ways, but don't worry... I want you... my bed is big."

"Well put your pants back on and I'll meet you back in the party and we'll... we'll just leave... and... go back to your big bed."

With that, I side stepped my "drug" and stumbled up the stairs to the party without looking back. I kept my eyes averted to all the staring people who knew I had been outside with a boy. I swung open the closet doors to grab my purse when all of a sudden a hand grabs my ass. I spin around and find my back up against yet another solid cage. 

I clutch my purse with a death grip as my next offender stands straight in front of me with his dick right in plain sight, like a god damn gun, sticking me up. 

"You know you want this..."

"Get away from me! You've slept with one of my friends."

"Does that mean you wont fuck me?!"

"Probably not."

"Oh come on! I've wanted that ass ever since the pimps and hoes party. You know you want this." 

I push past him and give the host a quick hug for "such a lovely time" and bound out the door. I make it half way home when I realize my face is streaked with tears falling every time I take a step. I enter my room and peel off my smoke infested clothes as if my body and mind could rid themselves of the previous encounters. I climb into bed and wrap the warmth of my fuzzy blanket over me, surrounding my body in a cocoon of shakes that slowly subside to only sudden jerks throughout the night.

My First Public Embarrassment

Let's visualize a long, pointed, stainless steel object breaking through your skin. That anticipation for the instant sting of an alien object building up in you until you might explode. The pointed torture device penetrates your arm with nauseating force. The color in your face completely evaporates and your stomach starts tightening like it's going to backlash at any moment. The sweat drops down your forehead and you clench your eyes shut as the room starts spinning around you. Right when you feel like you can't take anymore, you look over at your doctor and realize the shot has been successful... five minutes ago. 

If you haven't guessed already, I have a huge phobia of needles. All my life I have fought every trip to the doctor, I have cried numerous times (hours before I've even arrived to the office), and I have fainted. All these behaviors of mine have lessened over the years, but my minor belonephobia hasn't really ever left me. Thus, my appointments that involve shots seem to always result in me fainting on the chair, but never in front of more than two people. 

My ears have been pierced for years and I had only suffered from slight nausea after both of the procedures, so I thought to myself "Hey, I'm almost 19 years old, they use a gun, it will be quick and painless, why not get my ears pierced again, right?!" This was a major mistake. 

It was Valentines day of 2009 and my roommates and I had decided to go out for dinner and while we were there, we would get my ears pierced in Claires. Once this decision was made, my mind went on a rampage and I felt like I had to pee and vomit all the way to the jewelry store. 

As I walked in with my short, little sundress and my fake "perky" attitude, my roommates became oblivious to my eternal war going on all throughout my body. I walked over to the "death chair" like I was walking the Green Mile. I sat down and awaited my worse nightmare to come upon me in front of all my roommates, the piercing lady, and the handful of customers in the store. 

My hands were shaking, my smile was plastered onto my face, the gun was raised to my ear and as I took a deep breath, it punctured my lobe and a fake diamond took its place. It was quick, it was painless, and the second piercing was just the same. As I sat there with my new earrings, I felt so proud of myself for not letting my anxiety get the best of me; my phobia had been conquered! 

Once my roommates left to go look at other items in the store, I began to feel that nausea creeping up within me like the crypt keeper knocking on my door, waiting for me to relinquish all my noble actions and pride to a stupid little needle. I was determined to not let it conquer me, so I strode forward and tried to make conversation with one of my roomies but as soon as my hand touched her shoulder, all my conscious thoughts went out the window. 

That's right, I fainted. Not only did I fall completely back and hit my head on one of the earring holders, but I had pulled my roommate down with me in her attempt to hold me up, AND as a result of falling, my dress had flown up, exposing all of me to Claires. All I remember is opening my eyes and seeing a crowd surrounding me.  

After that experience I'm sure I scarred quite a few kids and probably blinded everyone in the store. My little piercing expedition had earned me my first real public embarrassment and as I look back on it, I'm kind of glad that it happened; it makes one funny story, and I have my pierced ears to look at every morning. :)